Well, the worst one I have is smoking. The others are not so bad but probably annoying to other people. I bite my nails and twirl my hair all the time. I guess I have to keep my hands busy. 🤔
Last Edit: Apr 4, 2022 10:15:24 GMT -5 by VanessaNDF
Once I lose my temper its like a demon takes over the red mist decends and I end up saying things I really shouldnt to people I shouldnt in ways I shouldnt and I will repeat them in several languages just to make sure everyone gets the message.
My brother was the last victim of this. Not that he didnt deserve it but he was told very publically ( social media ) exactly what I thought of him... in clear concise language consisiting of quite a few four letter words.
Once I lose my temper its like a demon takes over the red mist decends and I end up saying things I really shouldnt to people I shouldnt in ways I shouldnt and I will repeat them in several languages just to make sure everyone gets the message.
My brother was the last victim of this. Not that he didnt deserve it but he was told very publically ( social media ) exactly what I thought of him... in clear concise language consisiting of quite a few four letter words.
I understand! I'm getting a bit better lately at coming out of the anger more quickly than I used to do. It started with blowing up at someone, then afterwards not feeling I was right to be angry, so I'd apologise. That process gradually got shorter so the apologies came sooner. Now I'm sometimes looking for a way to get a laugh so I can kick myself out of the anger rather than blow up completely, and that could show the other person it's okay to discuss things with me.
Still, I usually have the sensation of the anger carrying me off. I don't like that!
How about everyone's significant other or friends? Do they have a bad habit that might annoy you? My husband cracks his knuckles and it drives me crazy.
How about everyone's significant other or friends? Do they have a bad habit that might annoy you? My husband cracks his knuckles and it drives me crazy.
My ex used to be always breathing.....
It was just soooo continuous. Sleeping, eating, working, playing, moaning. He would never stop.
How about everyone's significant other or friends? Do they have a bad habit that might annoy you? My husband cracks his knuckles and it drives me crazy.
My ex used to be always breathing.....
It was just soooo continuous. Sleeping, eating, working, playing, moaning. He would never stop.
I'm a chronic procrastinator. I mean really bad. It worries me sometimes. Once I start a task I throw myself into it and get it done. But sometimes I build jobs up to be so much more in my head than they actually are in reality. And once I have completed said task I kick myself for not starting it much sooner.
I'm a chronic procrastinator. I mean really bad. It worries me sometimes. Once I start a task I throw myself into it and get it done. But sometimes I build jobs up to be so much more in my head than they actually are in reality. And once I have completed said task I kick myself for not starting it much sooner.
I'm a chronic procrastinator. I mean really bad. It worries me sometimes. Once I start a task I throw myself into it and get it done. But sometimes I build jobs up to be so much more in my head than they actually are in reality. And once I have completed said task I kick myself for not starting it much sooner.
I have still to see someone kicking themselves...........
I'm a chronic procrastinator. I mean really bad. It worries me sometimes. Once I start a task I throw myself into it and get it done. But sometimes I build jobs up to be so much more in my head than they actually are in reality. And once I have completed said task I kick myself for not starting it much sooner.
I have still to see someone kicking themselves...........Â
I often wish I were more of a go-getter: but due to health problems, this isn't possible. Which utterly sucks.
I also wish I was a go-getter, but I don't have a valid reason such as health. I don't know if it's a form of anxiety why I put things off, or a confidence issue. I'm very much a perfectionist and I think it's part of why I build tasks up to be so much taller in my mind
I often wish I were more of a go-getter: but due to health problems, this isn't possible. Which utterly sucks.
I also wish I was a go-getter, but I don't have a valid reason such as health. I don't know if it's a form of anxiety why I put things off, or a confidence issue. I'm very much a perfectionist and I think it's part of why I build tasks up to be so much taller in my mind
Definitely. I have health issues that hold me back, but I also have the perfectionism (which pairs with anxiety). It makes you afraid of failure, so then you don't want to even begin anything. I have very avoidant behavior at times. I think those with perfectionism are also very critical of themselves, which makes it so hard to achieve things..... IDK if it's also the reason why I have imposter syndrome, but I have that on top of it all... it's a nasty combination lol I can hold myself back very easily...
Then other times... I get so motivated to do something, and then I just make a leap and go for it.