What is something you would want your husband to do for you?

Well, the best way to keep flames burning is to talk about what you both want and trying your best to make that happen for each other.

Yes, I like when my partner does dishes after dinner.. I'm the one who cooks, so it's nice for someone to help after the fact. Even small efforts can make a big impact.

In a marriage, spouses should not have to tiptoe around each other. Be helpful, be supportive but also be yourself.

Hi , my husband has mild OCD germ phobia so I do know a little about dealing with this. There is no one cure its a case of worlking together to see what you can cope with. I know one couple who limited it to 10 questions per day. its what works for the couple involved.

In our house we share tasks, I cook my husband clears away. We use a dishwasher and who ever is in the kitchen when it finishes will empty it.

How to keep things going? Keep communicating, listening is just as important as talking. Dont hold grudges dont rake up old issues if you disagree..
Most of all dont forget how to have fun.

Thank you cassie and a_muppet. I will take your advices to heart. I want to work on my marriage and make her happy. She has already put up with so much of my issues and I need to support her and want to. your advices make me want to help her more.