What is your thoughts on someone who quits something?
I don't mean a bad habit, or a team where you are letting others down.
I mean quitting as your own person, quitting things like a job? A project, competition, a book, a class, a marriage etc.
If someone decides to quit something why do so many people criticize? Are we such experts that we expect people to force themselves to finish everything they start? Heck half the time we don't even know the reason why a person quits. Nor is it our business. So why judge?
Here is a scenario that made me realize I see quitters differently than others.
I am a long time fan of the TV show Survivor.
This year they brought back previous winners. One of the contestants was a 2 time winner. During this season when members were voted off they were not gone from the game, they were sent to a different place, still in the game, but had to wait out their chance to re-enter the game. Well when this 2 time winner was voted off, she went to the "holding" area so to speak. When she got there, she flat out said, I can't do this anymore I am quitting.
I thought kudos to her, she knew her limits, she knew who she was up against, its very physically draining, and she was up against contestants that were younger than her, and her style of playing stemmed from many years ago and it has changed now and I think she just ran out of gas, and realized she had to leave.
WOW the bashing she got for quitting was disgusting. She hurt nobody, she was not on a team, and did not let a soul down, and it was her own personal choice and her own personal loss.
What the heck gives people the right to beat up someone for quitting?
A person can't worry about what others think of them for that action. A person has to do what they need to do to take care of themselves regardless of what others think.
Let's say you take a job where you are really needed to perform a service that is going to help others greatly BUT you are under so much stress because of the way co-workers treat you or some other factors that you decide it's in your best interest to leave. You can't worry about what anyone else is going to think. You have to take care of you.
If you suck at the violin and want to quit...why should you have to continue with something you are terrible at and what is likely making you miserable? Just because someone is going to give you a time about being a quitter is no reason to stick with something. JMO.
For me I guess it depends on what it is or where the feeling of wanting to quit stems from.
If it's something that is emotionally or physically trying, then go ahead and quit. You might be able to start again later if you really want to, but it's never good to push yourself to the brink.
Quitting a bad habit? YES, do it!
If it's something that is beneficial for you or you are just afraid of failure, then try not to quit if you can help it.
Quitting is "the easy way out" to many, but sometimes challenges are just too much, and we all have breaking points.
yes I agree with you gals. There are good things to quit for sure. There are bad things to quit as well. But there are also circumstances where one only knows what is best for them and if they can't, they just can't.
I think I am just getting old, and finding people all to often these days find some kind of pleasure in bashing people. Sheesh as if life isn't challenging enough out there.
Of course one should not allow others to bother them in negative ways, but sometimes you read things and you are just blown away at how others can be so harshly hurtful. My rant for the day.
What is your thoughts on someone who quits something?
I don't mean a bad habit, or a team where you are letting others down.
I mean quitting as your own person, quitting things like a job? A project, competition, a book, a class, a marriage etc.
If someone decides to quit something why do so many people criticize? Are we such experts that we expect people to force themselves to finish everything they start? Heck half the time we don't even know the reason why a person quits. Nor is it our business. So why judge?
Here is a scenario that made me realize I see quitters differently than others.
I am a long time fan of the TV show Survivor.
This year they brought back previous winners. One of the contestants was a 2 time winner. During this season when members were voted off they were not gone from the game, they were sent to a different place, still in the game, but had to wait out their chance to re-enter the game. Well when this 2 time winner was voted off, she went to the "holding" area so to speak. When she got there, she flat out said, I can't do this anymore I am quitting.
I thought kudos to her, she knew her limits, she knew who she was up against, its very physically draining, and she was up against contestants that were younger than her, and her style of playing stemmed from many years ago and it has changed now and I think she just ran out of gas, and realized she had to leave.
WOW the bashing she got for quitting was disgusting. She hurt nobody, she was not on a team, and did not let a soul down, and it was her own personal choice and her own personal loss.
What the heck gives people the right to beat up someone for quitting?
I can see myself in the competitor you describe.
I don't see myself as a quitter, but I like to think I am aware of when to step off a route that is becoming more and more challenging, but the likelihood of a positive outcome is fading fast.
To be more precise, I WOULD have called her a quitter if she has been losing and gave up. But she tried and failed, and on reviewing her position, decided that the result she got was the fair one, and she was not going to turn it around.
a_muppet: Ha, I just spotted you, Noeleena - sneaking in. ::Sgc7Hl4::
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noeleena: Thank you i do come in allmost every night ,just dont allways have some thing to say ,of cause you know i,m a spy....lol,s.
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MaryContrary: she's like the wof elf on a shelf *giggles*
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